Parental mental adjustment

We know that parents experience great pressure when a cleft baby is born, with feelings ranging from shock to disappointment, anxiety, pain, or guilt. These are normal emotional reactions, and we know that you will require some time to adjust.

Once you accept the fact that you have a very special child to love and care for you are on the way to solving all the problems. Your child can be a normal person and contribute to society. We are very happy for you and your child, and hope that you will actively cooperate with the treatment program. If on the other hand you are still unable to accept the fact of your child’s deformity and are at a loss for how to relieve your feelings, we urge you to contact our Foundation as soon as possible. Or, consult with your local craniofacial center. Our trained staff is happy to offer you all necessary assistance.

In addition, the members of the [Blessed Parents’ Association] are eager to share their experiences with you, which can go far in helping your mental adjustment. Parents associations of cleft children are very helpful in the persons in these groups have experience in coping with problems associated with a cleft child.